Melt the pink candy melts in a microwave safe bowl. Heat in 30-second intervals, stirring between each one. Do this until smooth.
Dip the pretzels into the melted chocolate. Then, dip the pretzel bows halfway into the chocolate. Put on a parchment paper lined tray to dry.
Put the melted chocolate into a piping bag. Cut a small hole at the tip and then use that melted chocolate to fill in the GIRL mold. Do this step two times.
Take some of the leftover chocolate and drizzle lines on the pretzel sticks, pretzel bows, and also Twinkies.
Add the letters onto the Twinkies while the melted chocolate drizzle is still wet. If you find that the letters don't stay on, put the piping bag of chocolate in the microwave for 30 seconds, then pipe out a drop of chocolate and replace the letters so that they stick to the Twinkies.
Repeat the above steps for the blue chocolate, but make sure to use the BOY mold for that color.
Wash and dry all the fresh fruit. Slice the strawberries.
Split the cream cheese into two bowls and put the strawberry jam in one and the blackberry jam in the other.
Use the strawberry slices and put them on top of the strawberry jam. Add some raspberries, too. Put the blackberries and blueberries on top of the blackberry jam.
Make sure the board is clean and dry.
Put the Twinkies in a line in the middle of the board. Alternate between pink and blue.
Put a pink marshmallow cupcake in between the girl Twinkes and the blue marshmallow cupcake in between the boy Twinkes.
Put the cream cheese spread with the strawberry jam under the Girl Twinkie on the bottom of the board.
Put the blackberry jam at the top of the board above the boy Twinkie.
Put the pink pretzel sticks and lollipops diagonally on the board. Start at the marshmallows and end at the edge of the board. Repeat this on the opposite side with blue pretzels and lollipops.
Place the crackers around the bowls of the cream cheese and then place the rest of the sliced strawberries and raspberries in the gaps of the pretzels and Twinkies. Repeat for the other side of the board with the blue and black berries.
Place the blue mini donuts on the open edge of the boy's side of the board and then put the pink donuts on the other side.
Put the pink pretzel bows in the open space on the girl's side and the blue pretzel bows on the boy's side.
Place any blue candy-coated chocolates in the gaps on the boy's side - and the same with the pink candies on the girl's side.
-Spread the pink pretzel bows in the large open space on the girl side of the board and spread the blue pretzel bows on the boy side.