Comments on: Ask Kelli: Parenting Teens, Who is the Parent here?

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By: Steph @ One Sleepy Mom

Steph @ One Sleepy Mom — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 13:18:21 +0000

I am a mother of two teenage girls, 15 and 17. When they try to disrespect me, I inform them that I will not be speaking to them until they can learn some respect. I tell them that I don’t care if they don’t like what I have to say, and they are more than welcome to have their own opinion, but they WILL respect me, whether they are 15 or 40. Usually that is responded to with stomping and yelling, but in 5 minutes it’s all better.

By: Lisa Bunnage

Lisa Bunnage — Tue, 19 Jun 2012 22:46:15 +0000

I’m a Parenting Coach who specializes in teens and your 3 suggestions were ideal!!! I’d have put Listening as #1 though. Listening is a skill not many master. Teens need you to listen to understanding, not just to gather information to use for lecturing. That’s super important and they’re very intolerant of being bossed around. That’s only because they’re turning into adults and how many of us like being bossed around.

Nuff said for now, could go on for hours about teens :). They’re my favourite age group by far, find them absolutely fascinating and always learn something from them.

Lisa.

By: Dr. Par Donahue

Dr. Par Donahue — Tue, 19 Jun 2012 20:39:54 +0000

I have been a pediatrician for many years and have seen and advised hundreds if not thousand of families. I agree, the parent needs to remember she/he is the parent. And like you suggest, he/she does not need a teenager for a friend, just like the teen does not and should not have a parent for a friend. That said let me make a couple of suggestions. There are more on my blog: http://www.messengersindenim.org.
Parenting teens start when they are born. Teach these things first, even todlers need to know an adult is in charge.
Teach “sit, stay, stop, come,” and “no” by age of 18 months. A pre-schooler who knows how to sit is happy listening to a story, reading a book later as a child, and doing home work years later. He/she does not need a TV to entertain him/herself.
Kids who know what stay and come mean will be safer than those whose parents don’t know enough about these tasks to teach them. These simple things are fun to teach and fun to learn! If we don’t teach them to come, they will be lost for a long time and think that it is fun to hide from a parent or sitter.

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Your article is a delight to read. Full of sound information and charm. Keeping one’s sense of humor is essential when parenting a teen!

By: Mama Marlaine

Mama Marlaine — Thu, 12 Jan 2012 23:42:21 +0000

As mom of two now college daughters – and second of five girls myself – I am going to pipe in for the importance of retiring the drama queens title here. EQ merits from the same practice as IQ. Young girls sticking their necks out and making mistakes are the reason big girls are often the ones others go to when they want emotional comfort. Best thing a mom can do for her boys and girls is affirm the importance of the educational curve because – to modify a Rachel (friends) line ” it does matter and it does happen to everyone!” Hugs!

By: Ann Morgan James

Ann Morgan James — Thu, 12 Jan 2012 00:47:13 +0000

First I have to say I love your opening disclaimer….I am also a parent of a boy. I always joke that God knew what he was doing when he gave me a boy because I would have killed a girl. You girl moms have it rough. So much drama! I am glad I have a boy…that said, Kelli, I love your three pieces of advice. The other thing I would say is the following…make sure your listening is effective. Make sure it is both active and empathetic. When you add those two listening styles together, you get powerful effective listening. Then you can ask the following questions:
1. What do you want? This is the most important question. This is where you are listening to learn. Using reflective listening skills; parrot back to them what you heard. You do this for two reasons. Firstly, you want to make sure you heard them correctly. Secondly, you want to help them clarify and understand exactly what they want. What is the final outcome they are seeking?
2. What are you doing to get it? (Note: “it” refers to “what your child wants”.) This question helps your child look at what they are doing. Are they part of the problem or the solution? Is what they are doing contributing to the problem? You are gently—gently—exploring their current actions at this step.
3. Is it working? This question helps to shed light on the status of their current efforts. Is what they are currently doing to fix the problem working? Truth is, the chances are if it was working they would not be coming to you, so the expected answer here is “No”.
4. Do you want to figure out another way? Can I help you figure out another way? These questions are asked more as a way of getting permission for you to offer a solution. Before they will listen to your suggestions, they have to want to hear them.
That’s my two cents! Ok…so it was a quarter!!! Happy Day all!

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