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Homeschoolers Need Socialization

Really?

Recently, in my local newspaper, there was a nice article about a homeschooling family with five children. They quoted the home schooled children and the author spoke statistics…when I saw it laying on my kitchen table, I thought wow how exciting and went on, with much enthusiasm, to read the article. Later on I checked my e-mail and saw lots of messages from local home schoolers who were outraged by the comments being left on-line regarding the article. I skimmed through those messages (a bunch had already been blocked by the paper) and noticed the one prevailing topic: socialization (what a shocker, huh ladies?). People who don’t have a clue and have made generalizations about home schoolers think that we keep our kids in a closet (without windows) and don’t allow them to go out and be “socialized”. Which lead me to think about this a little further.

What you might not know is that I’ve been in the “formal” education world for the past 15 years, either as a teacher’s aide, student teacher, substitute teacher, a teacher trainer, and a regular teacher in the classroom. I’ve been in the Catholic schools (two of them), charter schools, and regular public schools (three of them) and I’ve had my share of what it’s like to teach and be in these settings. I’ve worked in pre-schools, elementary schools, K-8 centers, Middle Schools and even had my bouts with high school. So, let’s just say…I’ve been there and seen it from a teacher as well as a parent’s perspective (my eldest attended two different parochial schools from pre-k until 5th grade).

So what does the “socialized child” have over our supposed “unsocialized” home schooled children? (To read the rest of this post, please visit my blog: Raising {& Teaching} Little Saints)

Review and Giveaway: A Love that Multiplies

I just finished reading Michelle and Jim Bob Duggar’s new book, A Love that Multiplies.  Here’s what the publisher says about the book:

“In this second book from the Duggars, they focus on the principles that equip them to face life’s challenges—drawing from their most recent challenge with the 3-month premature birth of their newest child, Josie. They also share the new challenges their older children are facing as they prepare for adult life. Central to the book is a section on the principles that the Duggars have consistently taught their children. These simply worded principles are basic to the Duggar family and are shared in a way that other parents can incorporate in their own homes. A special chapter on homeschooling gives valuable information to parents who are considering this route or are already invested in it. The world continues to be amazed by their nineteen well-groomed, well-behaved, well-schooled children and their home life, which focuses on family, financial responsibility, fun—and must importantly, faith. The Duggars show how parents can succeed whether they’re rearing a single child or several.”

“Children are a gift, a reward, and a blessing,” says Michelle Duggar.  Living in a house that is over 7,000 square feet, the family not only have 19 children but they also homeschool ALL of them.  I’m. so. totally. amazed.  They are really a great family, Michelle is so sweet and gentle and soft spoken (can she e-mail me just an ounce of this, pleeeeease?).  While living under the microscope with their TLC TV show, 19 and Counting, they have polite and well-behaved children (still kids though, they do get in trouble, lol) and it amazes me that their family is as large as it is and they train their children so well.

“Six children under the age of five can be very overwhelming, but now that they are teenagers…it was all very worth it,” says Michelle about herfirst five kids…five seems so small compared to the 19 they have, eh?  I love how Michelle and Jim-Bob in this book are so realistic about their life.  Some fascinating fact I learned about them is that they are Debt free (for over 20 years), they homeschool, and they have a strong family bond, they are open to life, their family is like a well-oiled machine, kids have chores and help the house run so well, they do 40 loads of laundry a week, they go as a family on mission trips to help others, and spend $3,000 a month on groceries!  WOO HOO!  Really truly, they are my heroes…as a homeschooling family with five children, I feel like such a whiner…they really have something good going on in that home!

Here’s the Table of Contents for the book:

Table of Contents

Preface: Our Biggest Test Begins

Part 1: Little Baby, Big Challenges
1. Little Eyes Watching
2. More Babies on the Way!
3. A Surprising Test Begins
4. Praying without Ceasing
5. Miracles and Milestones
6. Difficult Priorities

Part 2: Shaping Hearts and Minds
7. Living under the Microscope
8. Opportunities to Reach Out to Others
9. Developing a Servant Heart
10. Making Faith Fun

Part 3: Big Hope for Our Children’s Future
11. Homeschool, Duggar Style
12. Vocations, Goals, and Roles
13. Daily Training, Tips, and Practicalities
14. Life Is a Classroom

Part 4: Big Hearts, Full of Love
15. Protecting and Cherishing Our Relationships
16. Michelle’s Heart for Children and Moms
17. Jim Bob’s Lifelong Hobby
18. Do the Duggars Date?

P.S. Answering the Big Question

Though I enjoyed the entire book and learned so much from the Duggars but my favorite chapter of the book is Part 3: Big Hope for Our Children’s Future where they discuss homeschooling, vocations, goals, roles, daily training (great tips, by the way), and how life is a classroom!  I just love their House Guidelines:

  1. Always use soft words, even when you don’t feel well.
  2. Always display kind actions, even if you have been mistreated.
  3. Show joyful attitudes even when no one is looking.
  4. Have sincere motives with no thought of self-gain.
  5. Think pure thoughts.
  6. Always give a good report of others. Never talebear unless physical harm will come to someone. Use Matthew 18.
  7. Never raise a hand to hit.
  8. Never raise a foot to kick.
  9. Never raise an object to throw.
  10. Never raise a voice to yell.
  11. Never raise an eye to scowl.
  12. Use one toy/activity at a time.
  13. Never let the sun go down on your wrath. (Don’t go to bed angry or guilty)
  14. Amendment J.O.Y. – Make serving your family a priority.  Put Jesus first, Others second, Yourself last.

Want to read the book?
Here’s your chance to win a copy of it.  Three lucky 3 Boys and a Dog readers will win a copy of their own of A Love that Multiplies {$19.99}, here’s how:

REQUIRED COMMENT: Visit the Duggar Family’s website, look around, then come back and tell me something you learned about this lovely family.

BONUS #1: Follow @momof3boys3702 on Twitter and RT this contest. The easiest way to retweet is to simply click the green ReTweet on the top right of this post. YOU MAY TWEET ONCE DAILY

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#1. Spread the word about this review by: email, forums, blogging, Digg, or putting the link in a meme. (one entry per thing done)

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CONTEST ENDS: at Midnight CST on July 5th, 2011

OPEN TO: US and Canada

*DISCLAIMER: I was given a copy of A Love that Multiplies from Simon & Schuster to help facilitate my review.  Any opinions stated are strictly my own.*

Review & Giveaway: Rock N Learn

I want my kids outside active but sometimes they need good things to watch on TV…okay I’m guilty I do use the tube as a sitter sometimes but with five kids I call it survival some days.  It does make me feel guilty sometimes and is probably why when it comes to what my kids watch on TV or DVD, I’m one picky Mama!  I’m always on the hunt for good DVDs to take in the van for a long ride or to use as a supplement in our homeschool.  So as I mom and teacher to these lovely kiddos, I have to tell you that I am mighty impressed with Rock N Learn!

I was given the opportunity to review their educational DVDs and I am super impressed and SO ARE THE KIDS!   I think their favorites were the Letter Sounds and the Getting Ready for Kindergarten ones.  They are are three totally different levels in the reading process {at ages 6, 4, and 2} but they all enjoyed these DVDs a whole lot.  I caught my daughter just this afternoon singing the K song as she was swinging {her name starts with K, of course}.  The cutest is to watch my 2 year old signing the songs about letter sounds!  Maybe we’ll have an early reader with him thanks to this lovely program?  The Getting Ready for Kindergarten not only touches on things they will do at school but also how responsible they need to be at home by making their beds and picking up after themselves. {LOVE!}

My favorite ones were two others the Alphabet Exercise {which I did with them and I got a work out!} and the Spanish one {something near and dear to this Hispanic Mama’s heart}.  Really this Spanish DVD is an answered prayer because I’ve been so bad about speaking it with them.  They like it too and they even started asking me how to say certain things from the DVD!  Gracias Rock N Learn!  If the last couple of weeks are indicators of how hot this summer is going to be, the Alphabet Exercise DVD will be our family favorite.  I might even incorporate it to our school next year as part of our Physical Education program.  ;)

I’m going to invest in their Science DVDs for our homeschool next year and use it to guide our Science program!  I’m so excited!  Mommies, I really loved these DVDs {can you tell?}!  They are kid tested, mommy tested and teacher approved!  Really, they are educationally sound! Here’s a clip to one of their videos:

Ready to buy?  You can visit them and use this Coupon for 25% OFF: Code JQ7711, or you can buy them at your local teach supply stores or Barnes & Noble.

And I have GREAT news…since we mean business & we love our readers so much at 3 Boys and a Dog, we are going to giveaway FOUR (si quatro, 4) DVD Collections.  That’s correct, not four DVDs but instead four collections!  Which ones you wonder?  Well hop on over to Rock N Learn’s website and take a look {oh and don’t forget to come back here and tell us which ones you’d just LOVE to have for your kids as a REQUIRED entry}.  Here are the Giveaway Collections (x2):

1.  Math Rap DVD Collection (contains Addition & Subtraction Rap, Multiplication Rap and Division Rap DVDs) = 3 DVDs

2.  Preschool & Kindergarten DVD Collection ( contains Alphabet Exercise, Spanish, Getting Ready for Kindergarten and Letter Sounds DVDs) = 4 DVDs

So FOUR lucky readers will be blessed with these fabulous DVDs.  What do you need to do?

REQUIRED COMMENT: Visit the Rock N Learn website and tell me something you’d love to have and why.  Or visit Rock N Learn’s Educational Blog and tell me something you learned.

BONUS #1: Follow @momof3boys3702 on Twitter and RT this contest. The easiest way to retweet is to simply click the green ReTweet on the top right of this post. YOU MAY TWEET ONCE DAILY

BONUS #2: Like Rock N Learn and 3 Boys and a Dog on FaceBook then share this post by clicking the FaceBook share button at the bottom of this post.

Other bonus entries:

#1. Spread the word about this review by: email, forums, blogging, Digg, or putting the link in a meme. (one entry per thing done)

#2. Follow my blog.

#3. Subscribe to my RSS feed.

#4. Put my button on your blog.

#5. Leave a comment on any other post (excluding giveaways!) Be sure to leave a comment here saying which post.

#6 – Vote for me at Picket Fence by clicking the button on my sidebar. Be sure to leave a comment saying you did! YOU MAY VOTE ONCE DAILY!

CONTEST ENDS: at Midnight CST on 6/17

OPEN TO: US and Canada

*DISCLAIMER: I was sent items by Rock N Learn to help facilitate my review. Any opinions stated are strictly my own.*

GIVEAWAY: ABCmouse.com Early Learning Academy

So you know that we homeschool ALL five, f-i-v-e, 5, cinco, yes all five of our children.  No, I’m not crazy…{although some days I do feel like if I don’t take them outside RIGHT NOW, I might just go crazy}…I love it, really I do!  Yet to remain perfectly sane {just like in the classroom} I have to have a schedule and a discipline plan in place.  Part of the beauty of home educating is that you get to use one plan all day and for everything around the house from chores to classwork ;) .  One of my kids favorite treat is to get enough “tickets” to get on the computer and play educational games.  When 4PM rolls around, they are lined up at the computer ready to play.  So I as mommy/teacher, am always looking for the perfect educational, yet fun, games for them to play.  After all, if they aren’t outside running and playing, they need to be doing something were they are learning {at least that is our family motto}.

This is why ABCmouse.com Early Learning Academy has become part of our daily homeschool day for my little ones!  As a mom and teacher, I totally love it!  It truly is a full scope curriculum online!  There is really nothing, nada, about it that I can complain about.  The beautiful part of it all is that they too use a ticket system.  As the children go through the lessons (which spiral from easier to harder as they achieve each level) they earn tickets which they can later use to “buy” things; all digital of course and for their school rooms.

Each child is set up with an avatar of their choice and liking.  I sat with my five year old daughter and three year old son to set their’s up.  The program is for students ages two to six.  All subjects are covered…it really is a great program!  I am super impressed with it and will definitely continue to use it with my children.  Some days I even let them stay on and ”play” extra time {which allows me more time to work one-on-one with my two older sons}.  Why?  Well because they are still schooling but to them they are just playing another computer game {shhh…don’t tell them please}.  My daughter and son really can’t get enough of it.  Actually, today after spending a couple of hours outdoors I gave them some TV time and they begged to to ABCMouse.com instead!

ABCMouse.com Early Learning Academy has six academic levels, over 350 lessons, and every level includes five main curriculum subjects:  Reading, Math, World Around Us (Content Area), Art and Colors and Music and Songs.
  • The Reading Curriculum Includes: Uppercase and lowercase letter recognition, Phonics, Recognizing sounds, and Rhyming words and word families.  In addition, there are stories that are read to your child while displaying the text below it.
  • The Math Curriculum Includes: Recognizing and counting numbers 1-100, “More than” and “Less than”,  Identifying as well as drawing shapes and simple patterns,  and the meaning of addition and subtraction.
  • The World Around Us Curriculum Includes: The body and health, Sports, Plants and animals, Weather and the seasons, and The Earth, moon, sun, and stars!
Some additional features (just so that I can totally fall in love with it):
♥  Lesson Builder
♥ Progress Tracking
♥ Tickets and Rewards System
♥ Customizable Avatar
♥ Interactive Zoo
♥ Interactive Farm
♥ Aquarium
♥ Record a Book
♥ Best of all it is SAFE: no advertisement, no pop-up ads, and no external links!!

So for it’s wonderful graphics, educational component, and entertaining aspect, I give ABCmouse.com Early Learning Academy:

Of many programs out there, this one is TOP NOTCH!  Through the use of  Art, Books, Songs, Puzzles, Games, and even Printables, So go give it a try yourself (they have a free limited access available).  So hop on over and get ready to subscribe today!

But wait there is more!!  One lucky winner will get a membership to their site. That is a $95.40 value for one lucky reader!  Here’s what you need to do to enter:

REQUIRED COMMENT: Visit the ABCMouse Early Learning Academy website, look around, then come back and tell me something you liked, want, or learned.

BONUS #1: Follow @momof3boys3702 on Twitter and RT this contest. The easiest way to retweet is to simply click the green ReTweet on the top right of this post. YOU MAY TWEET ONCE DAILY

BONUS #2: Like ABCMouse.com Early Learning Academy, and 3 Boys and a Dog on FaceBook then share this post by clicking the FaceBook share button at the bottom of this post.

Other bonus entries:

#1. Spread the word about this review by: email, forums, blogging, Digg, or putting the link in a meme. (one entry per thing done)

#2. Follow my blog.

#3. Subscribe to my RSS feed.

#4. Put my button on your blog.

#5. Leave a comment on any other post (excluding giveaways!) Be sure to leave a comment here saying which post.

#6 – Vote for me at Picket Fence by clicking the button on my sidebar. Be sure to leave a comment saying you did! YOU MAY VOTE ONCE DAILY!

CONTEST ENDS: at Midnight CST on May 17th, 2011

OPEN TO: US Only

“Disclosure: I was provided with a membership good for ABCMouse.com at no cost to them in order to test the products’ abilities and give my own personal opinions on it. The opinions I have given are mine and may differ from others but were not influenced by the company or the free product provided.”

GIVEAWAY: WebWatcher Monitoring Software (170 dollar value)

Webwatcher LogoEver seen a crime-scene/investigation TV show when the victim is a teenager?  You know those shows that the lead investigator takes this teen’s computer and looks for signs of where she/he could be, whom she has had contact with, things she may have said in an e-mail, on Twitter, or even in Facebook?  In this day and age when our own children are much more computer savvy than we, it is vital to be one step ahead of them.  Being vigilant of what our children do is important and when they are online, even more so.  The world wide web (WWW) could be a wonderful place (like this lovely blog) or it could also be a scary place.  How do we avoid or prevent the unnecessary?  Since we can’t be in two places at once (though I wish I could bi-locate, almost on a daily basis) it is important to find the right piece of software that will be your “assistant”, sort-of speak, while you aren’t right next to your child(ren) when they are on the computer.

I’ve heard and looked into many other programs in the past but never got a chance to “test-drive” one until now, introducing WebWatcher Parental Control Monitoring Software!  From their website:

Webwatcher monitoring software is the best keylogger for Your PC or laptop because it lets you remotely ensure that there is no inappropriate activity taking place on your computer without your knowledge.

WebWatcher is your online chaperone!  Webwatcher monitoring software not only helps you monitor what your child(ren) are doing online but also control it.  That’s correct, you can either “white list” sites you’d like your child(ren) to go to or/and “black list” those sites you don’t want them to visit.  So not only do you see what your child is doing online (from any computer in the house or at work, it works remotely) but you can also block those sites you definitely don’t want your kids to visit.  This was one of my most favorite features of the program!  You can also individualize this feature, for example I have a 13 year old and a 6 year old who share a computer.  They each were assigned a log in so that the 6 year old would have different sites available to him and vice versa.  This is how it works:

How it works photo

Some of the additional features are:

  • Facebook & Myspace Activity
  • Read every e-mail sent or received on your PC
  • See all Instant Message and Chat (both sides)
  • Monitor every website visited
  • See every web search performed and the links that were clicked
  • Capture every keystroke
  • Take screenshots
  • Be notified when alert words are used

The beauty of it is that you can set up as many or as little monitoring as you’d like!  If you want to give your child more privacy, that’s fine or if you want to know everything they did, that too is possible!

So how does it work?  Easy, just follow these simple steps:

Easy Set Up photo

Set up was simple and setting up the monitoring was easy too!  Don’t think you are computer savvy enough to do this yourself?  Not to worry, WebWatcher will help you and do the settings that you’d like for you.  How much easier could they make it???   Want to see how easy?  Just watch this video demo of the software.

To order your copy by either download or to receive it in the mail, visit WebWatcher’s website.

Guess what???  We are thrilled to announce that WebWatcher is happy to participate in a giveaway to offer one free version of  Webwatcher monitoring software to you, our readers!  Just follow these easy steps:

REQUIRED COMMENT: Visit the WebWatcher website, look around, then come back and tell me something you liked, want, or learned.

BONUS #1: Follow @webwatcherkids and @momof3boys3702 on Twitter and RT this contest. The easiest way to retweet is to simply click the green ReTweet on the top right of this post. YOU MAY TWEET ONCE DAILY

BONUS #2: Like WebWatcher and 3 Boys and a Dog on FaceBook then share this post by clicking the FaceBook share button at the bottom of this post.
Other bonus entries:
#1. Spread the word about this review by: email, forums, blogging, Digg, or putting the link in a meme. (one entry per thing done)
#2. Follow my blog.
#3. Subscribe to my RSS feed.
#4. Put my button on your blog.
#5. Leave a comment on any other post (excluding giveaways!) Be sure to leave a comment here saying which post.
#6. Vote for me at Picket Fence by clicking the button on my sidebar. Be sure to leave a comment saying you did! YOU MAY VOTE ONCE DAILY!

CONTEST ENDS: at Midnight CST on April 5th, 2011

OPEN TO: US Only

*DISCLAIMER: I was sent a free version of this software by WebWatcher to help facilitate my review. Any opinions stated are strictly my own.*

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