Learning Math: Why Kids Get Frustrated and What Parents Can Do

When it comes to learning math, some students do just fine. Others, unfortunately, seem to hit all the snags and pitfalls while trying to learn.

Why is learning math frustrating for so many? Even those who are considered bright and hardworking have difficulty. Elementary school and high school require math and most college degrees require math too. College classes get bottlenecked with students who are taking the same math class for the second or third time. I’ve often heard, “I just have to pass this math class or I won’t graduate!”
While teaching math to students, I have hypothesized why this occurs and it doesn’t have anything to do with intelligence.

When learning math, a student must engage their full attention to the instruction. All it takes is for a student to daydream for a just few minutes and the whole week’s key points can be lost to the learner. Not so with other subjects like reading and writing. A student can get away with occasional daydreaming in those subjects and still grasp the week’s main point. Students can’t get away with that in math. Having an absent mind for just a few minutes in math can produce poor results on tests. Making a dumb mistake on a test in reading does not produce an “F” like it does in math.

Learning math is a sequential process. Learners need to be firm with all the steps that lead up to the final answer and they need to be provided adequate time to process and practice just-taught information before a new concept is introduced. For some students, information presented in math books needs to be broken down into sub-steps that are not found in the textbooks–information that would need to be fine-tuned by the instructor. Unfortunately, because of classroom limits, there just isn’t enough time to teach at every student’s skill level or to break down math information for those who need it most.

A typical classroom of math students rarely starts on an even academic playing field. The differences and needs can be vast. Because of the abstract nature of mathematics, some students require multi-sensory techniques and extra drill and practice in order to catch on. There simply is not enough time to do this in most classes and if parents are unavailable or don’t understand math themselves, the students suffer. It is hard for teachers to meet the needs of all math students, even with their earnest efforts and best intentions. Because of this, many math students never realize their full potential.

While working with students, I have found that the most glaring deficit in math understanding is a skill called “number sense” or the ability to have a feel for mathematical amounts. Students who have developed number sense do much better in math. Weak math students often produce answers that are not even close to being correct. They won’t think to challenge whether their answer is logical–an indication they lack number sense.

Good news–even though academic frustration seems rampant, math frustration can be minimized with the help of adults playing math games or activities at home. Math games are fun and are motivating. They develop number sense and actually get kids to want to be involved. There are no class grades tied to the outcome. These activities do not need to be purchased and here’s more good news–no tricky math understanding is needed for the adult. Any type of math game holds value and don’t let the word “game” make you think that a math game is not academically worthy.

Here are some ideas. Some can be played alone.

Grab a handful of anything–jellybeans, marbles, paper clips, or pennies–anything that can produce “a bunch of.” Have the child guess and write down the estimate, then count to confirm. Hands-on counting is a wonderful activity for students that need tactile validation.

Find another handful of anything, estimate the amount, and then grab another handful of the same amount. Do the different handfuls hold the same amount?
How many cereal Os does the child eat each morning?
What is the value of a handful of pennies, nickels, dimes, or mixed coins?

Fill three different sized cups with the same item. Estimate and write down how many is in one of them, count, then estimate how many are in the others.

Look quickly in a drawer, close the drawer and then estimate how many items are in it.
Estimate amounts in a see-through container. Guess the amount, write it on paper, count to confirm.
Estimate the weight of a backpack.
How much time would it take to reach a certain destination?

Place three pennies on the counter. How many more are needed to make ten pennies? Repeat using different amounts that will equal ten. Put twelve cents on a counter. How much more will make fifty cents?
How long would it take to earn a certain amount of money?
How long would it take to earn $1,000 if you earned $5 a day walking the dog?
How long would it take to spend a million dollars, spending a specific amount each day?
How many inches would a 100-foot building be?

Estimate weights of objects, then step on a scale. Fill a bag with items, or a suitcase, estimate the weight.
Arrange objects heaviest to lightest.

For older students, determine how many miles they can travel by car for 6 or 8 hours by traveling 55, then 65 miles per hour.

Finally, discuss the child’s strategies used for their estimating.

Increasing a students’ number sense and math confidence will not solve all the challenges felt by both math strugglers and teachers. But developing number sense outside of school will certainly help. Students will be able to transfer their learned information into the classroom. Instead of just guessing the answer and hoping to be lucky, students will better know when their answer seems logical or have enough mathematical sense and confidence to keep on working.
Guest article provided by Maureen Stearns who is an author, parent, and educator living in St. Petersburg, Florida–has been teaching struggling learners for over 20 years. She holds both Exceptional Student Education and Community Psychology Degrees. She recently wrote Multiply and Divide with Sticks and Steps®: Teach this Easy Method in Just 5 Minutes, to help students conquer this stumbling block.

To learn more, visit www.sticksandsteps.com or www.ksblinks.com.

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Can Educational Toys really Help my Child Learn Better?

 

 

 

What is Educational?

The first five years of a baby’s life are such a whirlwind for the parents: Did she eat enough? When was the last time he pooped? Does my 2-year-old really need a Chinese class? Ack—kindergarten, already? With all this going on, it’s easy to overlook the fact that your baby’s brain is developing faster than it will at any other time in her life—and that her lifelong capacity for learning will be mostly cemented before her bottom ever hits an elementary school chair.  Kind of a scary thought. But thankfully one of the best ways to ensure optimal brain development is to play with your baby—a lot. This is where educational toys come in to play.

 We’ve all heard the “Expert” say: “educational toys are a great way to help children learn, practice and develop essential life skills.” But, there is one absolute and critical requirement for these toys to pass as “toys.” Well, they have to be FUN! If your child won’t play with them, it is basically useless.

Children explore their environments and learn to interact with the world through “play.” They don’t comprehend theories and principles but they ARE beginning to actively use their imagination, discern social patterns and exercise their cognitive reasoning skills.

Kids need to experience the world first hand. Translation: They will be doing all those things that make us want to say “NO!” like crawling through/over/under, touching, pulling, pushing and yes, throwing. They need to see something drop, fly, spill, crumble, spin, make noise, light up and so on because this is their main form of learning.

In other words, Kids need to interact with the world in ways that engage their senses. Repeatedly. Slowly but surely, they begin to construct rules on how the world works (e.g., “When I throw this, mommy is not happy.” Eureka!?)

So the answer to the question “Can educational toys help my child learn better?” is a big “YES”. But make sure the toys you take home are engaging toys that create opportunities to interact with the world because it’s the experiences that create educational value, not the toy itself.

Final word

I am a big believer in the “right toy at the right time.” As your child grows up, it is important to find specialized toys to suit her interests. If she’s into building blocks and puzzles, challenging her with harder and harder puzzles will certainly help with cognitive development, while keeping her interest. The same goes for crafts or word games. But when it comes to educational infant toys (<6months) don’t get too specialized. Find great classics and find the time to spend with your baby.

About the Author

Guest article provided by Alice Wang who is the Founder and CEO of Spark Box Toys (www.sparkboxtoys.com) a New York based educational toy company that delivers award winning toys to families. Prior to Spark Box, Alice was a venture capital investor in the education space focused on personalized learning and education technology. Alice is a graduate of MIT, where she met her best friend and co-founder of Spark Box Toys. Though much neglected, her hobbies remain: running, sailing, diving and photography.

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Homeschooling Freebies: 4 Great Posts

I love homeschooling freebies, don’t you?  Yeah, I thought so. That is why I scoured the internet to come up with this little list of goodies around the web.  Have fun clicking away!

  1. Homeschooling Freebies:  Art Supplies - Everyone tries really hard to be a little greener, but have you taken steps within your homeschool to shrink your footprint?  Here are some great ideas to help your homeschool be a bit better for the environment and easier on your wallet!
  2. Halloween Homeschooling Freebies by Subject! - This is actually a guest post that I wrote for Crystal and Company, but I think it is seriously a fabulous resource!  Each Subject offers approximately 5 freebies to really round out your Unit Study!
  3. Five Ideas for Frugal Homeschoolers - Little People Wealth tells us how to save money on something so expensive by hitting the Library, doing trades, and more frugal homeschooling ideas!
  4. Free Homeschool Resources - This is a pretty extensive list from Budget Saving Mom of free homeschooling curriculum around the web!

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Math Anxiety: A Real Problem or Just an Excuse?

The thought of a math test can make even the most confident student stressed out, but for some, the feelings associated with math go far beyond garden-variety stress. For these students, a feeling of intense anxiety develops to the point where they are no longer able to think clearly. Are these emotions a real problem or just an excuse to avoid an uncomfortable academic subject?

Dr. Sian Beilock, author of Choke, a 2010 book on brain responses, says that, “People are very happy to say that they don’t like math, but no one walks around bragging that they can’t read. It’s perfectly socially acceptable to say you don’t like math.”

The Latest Research

Studies show that when students solve math problems, they first process information through the amygdala, the brain’s emotion center. Within a millisecond, another section of the brain, the pre-frontal cortex, takes over allowing the student to juggle data and think critically. In highly anxious students, the amygdala is far too active, leaving the pre-frontal cortex underutilized.

What Causes Such Stress Over Math?
Is this reaction learned or biological? The answer is two-fold. First, brain scans reveal that young children who are quick and accurate show a very low level of stress. Those who are slow and less accurate demonstrate a high level of stress in the brain. These early difficulties, even when minor in nature, cause frustration and difficulty later on.
It is also true that math anxiety can be a learned behavior. Dr. Beilock found first and second grade female teachers unconsciously passed on their negative attitudes about math to their female students (males did not seem to be affected). This trend doesn’t just exist in classrooms. Parents can also pass down their own negative perceptions to their children, both male and female.

What to Do If Your Child Experiences Math Anxiety
It is important to recognize that the problem will not go away by encouraging your child to “try harder” or “stop worrying”. Instead, use the following strategies:

    * Don’t Let It Slide – Math is the sole subject that is nearly 100% cumulative. Students must have a strong foundation or they will fall behind, lose confidence, and grow to dislike the subject. When you see your child struggling, intervene right away by assisting with homework. You may find that the older your child gets, the less willing he is to work with you. Seek after-school help from the teacher or hire a tutor who can patiently break down concepts, fill in any gaps, and instill confidence.
    * Watch Your Words – Even if math was difficult for you as a child, don’t harp on your shortcomings by saying, “I was terrible at math, too. It must run in the family.” Instead, focus on what can be changed. The truth is that with practice, your child can overcome his or her weakness in math. Adopt the mantra “practice makes permanent”, not “practice makes perfect”. With enough reinforcement, your child will be able to remember the important steps to solving problems.
    * Do Not Push Advanced Classes – The trend these days is for students to take advanced math classes early on, beginning with Algebra in 7th or 8th grade. This approach is a good one for many students but not for all. Those experiencing significant math anxieties may be further stymied because they feel overwhelmed and underprepared. Although your child may be capable of keeping up, don’t force advanced classes if he or she is not quite ready.
    * Beware of TEST Anxiety – Sometimes test anxiety in any subject increases when students sit down to take a test knowing they are not fully prepared. The old adage “You can’t study for math” is simply not true. The best way for a student to prepare is to make a practice test and solve the problems as if it is the real exam. This allows the student to know which problems he cannot solve and to practice accordingly. In many instances, proper preparation decreases stress on test day.
    * Use the Summer – Although it may be tempting for you and your child to take a break from math over the summer, studies show that this is not a good idea. The summer is the perfect time to review the skills that are troublesome and to preview what lies ahead in the coming school year. This ensures that your child will get off on the right foot in the fall.
Whether negative feelings towards math are biologically rooted or learned, it’s never too late to help your child turn the corner to success.
Guest article provided by Ann K. Dolin, M.Ed., founder and president of Educational Connections, Inc., a comprehensive provider of educational services in Fairfax, VA and Bethesda, MD. In her award-winning book, Homework Made Simple: Tips, Tools and Solutions for Stress-Free Homework, Dolin offers proven solutions to help the six key types of students who struggle with homework.
Learn more at anndolin.com or  ectutoring.com.

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Kids and Homework: What Can Parents Do?

When sending our kids to school, we expect the majority of their education to take place during the six or so hours per day when they are actually in the classroom. But for parents, it is important to realize that education needs to be reinforced in the home. This means not only helping kids with their studies, but also imposing homework times and engaging them in conversation about the things they are learning at school. It is easy to fall into a pattern of overreliance on our children’s teachers—but we must remember that teachers have dozens of kids to worry about. Our kids need us to make their education deeper and more personalized.

Establishing a homework time and space

As soon as your child begins getting homework assignments, set up an area of the home that can serve as the designated study space. This should not be in the child’s bedroom, as there may be distractions in there, and it is important for your child to have easy access to you for questions. Instead, set aside a distraction-free space in the common area of the house.

With the homework time, there are many possibilities. Experiment with different things until you find out what works best for your child. Some kids focus best two or three hours after school, just before dinner time. Some focus best in the hour prior to bed time. Some do best when the homework time is split into two segments before and after dinner. You will know you have found the best situation for your child when he or she is capable of focusing and getting all homework done day in and day out.

Meanwhile, whatever you set up for your child’s study time, make sure that you or your spouse are always nearby to help or answer any questions. It is a good idea to make this a quiet reading time for everyone in the household. This way, there is no television or other forms of excitement that may distract the child from his or her studies. So, during homework time, grab a book or magazine and settle in where you are immediately accessible.

Organization for good study habits

Another important point is to make sure your child approaches homework in an organized way. There are different ways to do this, but one that works for many kids is to keep a small notebook for daily homework to-do lists. Of course, this requires a type of discipline that is rare in young kids, but it is a good habit to learn if your child is capable of it.

Take stock of each day’s homework soon after your child gets out of school, and consider how much time will be needed to get it all done. Then, organize the tasks in a logical way that works for your child. Many parents find it best to encourage their kids to tackle the more difficult and time-consuming homework tasks first. Make all this a routine, and your child should eventually become relatively self-sufficient when it comes to homework—though of course, your involvement is always helpful.

Being engaged

Every family must find its own ways of approaching homework and study time. But if you want your child to do well in school and grow up with a good education, there is one indispensible element: parental engagement. This means more than just helping with homework; it also means communicating with teachers, being involved with the school, and staying plugged in to the community of parents in your neighborhood. It takes time and effort, but there is virtually nothing more important in a child’s life than education, so parents need to be engaged every step of the way.

In the end, many parents are surprised by just how much they enjoy being involved with their kids’ education. In helping your child with homework, you will learn plenty of things yourself (and you will relearn many things you have not thought of since childhood). Plus, time spent with your child working on homework is quality time together, a precious resource in these fast-paced times.

 

Guest article provided by Jamell Andrews who is an accomplished writer and believes in the power of homeopathic medicine. She is a regular contributor to the Parenting Journals.

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